The Brain as a Predictor
Our nervous system, and indeed our entire brain, is fundamentally built to make predictions. Just as your brain “fills in” your optical blind spot based on surrounding context, it constantly creates your experience of reality by predicting what will happen next.
Consider the famous story of the construction worker who screamed in agony after a nail appeared to pierce his steel-toed boot. Only when the boot was removed, revealing the nail had passed between his toes without a scratch, did his pain vanish. What happened? His brain predicted severe injury based on the visual input, generating intense pain as a protective signal. Once the true sensory information contradicted the prediction, the pain was no longer needed.
Pain, at its core, is a signal from our body designed to protect us. When you touch a hot stove and instinctively pull your hand away, the pain signals are so fast they often precede actual tissue damage. The pain’s purpose is to prompt a rapid protective action.
This highlights a critical distinction: symptoms are not “in your head” in a dismissive sense, but your brain can indeed generate and modulate them. Recognizing that unconscious processes profoundly influence our physical experience is the first step toward unraveling these symptoms. It’s not your fault; these are automatic responses. However, by bringing conscious awareness to these patterns, we gain the ability to change our symptomatic experience.
How a Defensive State Amplifies Symptoms
When your nervous system is in a defensive state (fight-or-flight, collapse, or a combination), it’s primed for danger. In this heightened state of alert, your system is designed to interpret ambiguous or neutral signals as more threatening.
Imagine experiencing a minor back injury, then feeling an agonizing pain in your ankle, only to discover it was a mosquito bite. In a state of vulnerability due to the back injury, your nervous system amplified a normal sensory input into an intense danger signal. Similarly, after watching a scary movie, every creak in your house might suddenly sound menacing. Your nervous system, already on high alert, is more likely to interpret ambiguous sounds as dangerous.
If you’ve been stuck in a defensive state, your system has been trained, sometimes for a lifetime, to interpret neutral signals as more dangerous than they are. Unraveling this can profoundly impact your symptom experience, potentially eliminating some entirely and vastly reducing the intensity of others.
The Fear-Symptom Loop
A common and detrimental cycle is the fear-symptom loop. You experience a symptom, and that symptom, understandably, generates fear. This fear, however, can act like gasoline on a fire, intensifying the symptom. As one individual experienced, a small patch of burning sensation on their arm, initially alarming, spread across their entire body over months, fueled by the underlying fear.
A crucial aspect of alleviating symptoms, therefore, is learning to approach them with a sense of serenity rather than escalating fear. This is challenging work, but with guidance and the tools provided, it becomes a cornerstone of healing.
Myelination and Malleability
Our brains form neural networks for specific purposes, including defensive ones. The more often these networks are activated, the more they become “myelinated” – signals travel faster and more efficiently along those pathways. This means that with chronic symptoms, we can inadvertently be “going to the gym” for our symptoms, making those neural pathways stronger and easier to slip into.
Consider learning a new driving route. Initially, you pay close attention. Over time, as the neural network for that route strengthens (myelinates), you can drive it on “autopilot” without conscious thought. Symptoms can work similarly: an initial symptom appears, you focus on it, and over time, the brain’s network for creating that symptom becomes faster and more efficient at its job of predicting and generating that experience.
The hopeful news is that these patterns can be unlearned. By using nervous system regulation tools to access a sense of safety, we can dismantle these well-worn symptom pathways. This doesn’t mean you’ll never experience pain again (e.g., from an injury), but it builds resilience against symptoms becoming chronic, ensuring they don’t stick around and become deeply ingrained in the same way.
Symptoms as Messengers
Often, symptoms can also serve as powerful messengers. It’s common for people to experience similar symptoms to those they witnessed in caregivers growing up, suggesting learned pathways for how the body expresses distress. Moreover, symptoms can sometimes “morph” or shift. For example, if you have a job with an abusive boss, your nervous system might generate migraines as a protective mechanism to prevent you from being near that person. If you address the migraines through nervous system work but remain in the same stressful job, your body might then develop back pain or another symptom, still trying to protect you from the perceived threat.
In this way, symptoms are often attempts by your system to protect you, guiding you toward greater alignment between what you truly want and your lived experience. Many individuals drawn to this work have sensitive nervous systems, and their bodies are acutely attuned to situations that are not good for them. While Western societies often reward “pushing through” discomfort, your body’s wisdom, expressed through symptoms, may be telling you that certain situations are no longer sustainable.
This work empowers you with clarity. While nervous system tools can help you calm down to some degree in challenging situations, they can also illuminate fundamental misalignments in your life. This clarity can lead to significant life changes – whether it’s leaving a job, re-evaluating a relationship, or setting stronger boundaries. These changes, though challenging, ultimately pave the way for an existence that is more deeply aligned with your well-being, leading to incredibly fulfilling outcomes.